10 Tips for Attending Mass Well

by Fr. Christian Mathis on January 15, 2009

Yesterday I decided to see what was going on over at Broken Alabasterwhere my fellow blogger Mary writes. One of the fine blogposts I found there is republished below. Eucharist is a Greek word that means thanksgiving. Today’s picture was taken on the Appalachian Trail in Grayson Highlands Park in Virginia. I am thankful to live only a few hours from this very spot. I love that tree, in every season. Thanks also goes to Mary for allowing me to share her words with the readers of this blog.

[T]he body of Christ gives life to those who receive it. Its presence in mortal men expels death and drives away corruption because it contains within itself in his entirety the Word who totally abolishes corruption.

- Saint Cyril of Alexandria, Egypt, AD 412

Here’s some practical tips for attending Mass well

1) Pre-read and meditate over the day’s Scripture reading. This can be done any day of the week. If you have a long drive to Mass it can be done on the way. It can also be done in the pew just before Mass begins. Pre-reading the Gospel helps prepare our mind and makes the message of Christ reach our heart more readily during the Mass.

2) Dress-up: Wear nice clothes to Mass. It doesn’t have to be anything expensive or too fancy but it ought to be your “Sunday’s Best.” Purchase two outfits that you wear only on Sunday, even if it is something simple. Beside being a sign of reverence toward the King of Kings, this really helps us to get in the mood for the holy event that we are attending. It also helps extend the blessing of going to Mass, in a way, by putting our mind on the Mass earlier than if we just go straight to Church from the store in blue jeans, a t-shirt, and flip flops, for example (BTW, no matter what – never wear flip-flops to Mass!)

3) Be Early: arrive 15 minutes early, sit or kneel, quiet your mind of the days activities and prepare your heart for the grace that’s coming.

4) Don’t worry about everyone else and what they are doing: This is a big temptation of mine. The more I realize the awesome gift of Christ’s Love we have in the Eucharist the more I tend to notice the flip-flops, those passing the tabernacle without genuflecting, and low-cut tops… I have to tell myself that this is not my concern. These our God’s children and this is HIS house. I have to keep my loving gaze on him. To help me with this, I remind myself of my own faults and failures, I ask God for his forgiveness, and I try to increase my gratitude for God’s mercy on me. God wants to make our heart soft, supple, compliant, and able to respond to his loving kindness. We can’t do that if we are too distracted by the faults of others. I suppose it’s the whole get the log out of your own eye kind of thing.

5) Sing! Remember to sing at Mass. Sing from you heart and pray the words. If it’s a difficult song, try singing just the chorus. If it’s a terrible song, just pray the best you can. If all the songs are terrible – try a different Mass!

6)During the offering, be mindful that you are offering yourselves to God. The Supper of the Lord is a mutual self-giving between you and Christ. Christ offers himself to us and we accept that love and offer ourselves to Him.

7) Give Thanks: Just after the consecration, bow your head and say “Thank you Jesus.” This simple prayer can do miracles. It helps us to recognize the sacrifice that Jesus has given us on the cross and enables the soul to receive His redeeming grace.

8) Walk reverently toward the Eucharist: Fold your hands, keep your eyes fixed on the tabernacle, the crucifix, or bow your head slightly. Walk slowly before and after receiving Christ.

9) Don’t chew [like a cow]! Think of Christ in the Eucharist as an invited guest that has come to unite his body to yours. Remember, this is an intimate moment. Let the Eucharist dissolve or break it gently in your mouth.

10) Give Thanks Again: After Mass take time to thank God for the whole Mass and all the people present. Pray for the priests and for all the people who just attended Mass with you. Pray for the holiness and fidelity of all. Pray that the Love of Christ in the Eucharist is able to extend into the world through his renewed saints.

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  • MaryH

    I love that tree! It’s perfect. Thank you, also, for the kind words.

  • Fr. Christian Mathis

    You are most welcome.

    Your words have been great for many of my parishioners as well. Thanks again for allowing me to share them.

  • Mark G.

    Sorry I’m late – it took a while to let this sink in a bit.

    Since I attend the Traditional Mass as well as the New Rite, I noticed a few things…

    Point 5: Unlike the experience of many older folks who usually got the Low Mass, our Sunday Mass is a Missa Cantata. We sing more than a typical parish, because we sing the entire Ordinary – Kyrie, Gloria, Credo, Sanctus et Benedictus, Pater Noster, Agnus Dei, PLUS the chanted Propers, PLUS Ofertory amp; Communion hymns, PLUS pre- and post-ludes before amp; after Mass. All are invited to sing all of it, and many sing much of it.

    Note: All this is still completely permitted (expected?) in the New Rite, but rarely done.

    Point 6: After the gifts are incensed on the altar, amp; after the priest amp; servers are incensed, the Thurifer invites the congregation to stand to be incensed (and I don’t mean “made mad.”). We don’t just remind ourselves in some shadowy symbolic way, but we actually are physically made part of the offering!

    Point 9: Surely how each receives Communion is personal. While receiving in the hand is permitted, the Church’s universal (Catholic?) norm is to receive on the tongue. Being fed Christ by Christ will change your outlook of the Eucharist. As far as chewing, I usually have to sing the Communion verse immediately after communing, so I have to chew a bit. But I console myself with John 6:53, where -in the Greek – Jesus said that unless you chew (or gnaw) the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you do not have life within you. Still, I appreciate the author’s comment on the intimacy of staying with the Lord in his sacramental presence as long as possible.

    It’s sad that mention even need be made of things like manners, silence, dress, and actually remembering to pray before, during amp; after Mass!

    Sorry so long, but I was very edified by this post. Thanks!

  • JesusThroughMary

    I’ve never seen this blog before today. All wonderful thoughts on the Mass, some of which should go without saying. On an unrelated note, how does a priest have “no to religion” as his blog’s motto?

  • Fr. Christian Mathis

    Thanks for the comment Mark. It is too bad some of these things need to be said, but I suppose all of us are in continual need of evangelization and we seem to have gone through some time with minimal catechesis in the church. The good news is that we have been there before and risen from the ashes, so to speak.BR/BR/Glad you stopped by JesusThroughMary. In order to understand the “No to religion” at the top of the page you might take a look at a previous post entitled, “Two ‘nos’, one ‘yes’ and the kingdom to come” You can find a link to it on the sidebar under favorite posts.

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