Blessed is the Kingdom

Seeking The Kingdom In All Things

Being Messengers of the Good News

This past weekend Sean, who is one of our deacons, preached one of the best homilies I have heard from him since I arrived in the parish last summer. He spoke about evangelization and the misconceptions we often have about it. I can’t speak for other parts of the country, but in the South it is common to associate evangelization with proselytism. Growing up in the Bible Belt meant at least one visit a week from someone whose first question was, “Have you been saved?” There was never a lack of visitors who went door to door inviting others to be a part of their church.

We Catholics take a different approach to evangelization. We are certainly happy to share our faith with others, but do not want to coerce or manipulate others into belief. To do so would be, in many ways, an act of violence.

There are three groups of people we seek to evangelize. First are those who have never heard the Gospel. One of our former bishops liked to say that we should start with reaching the unchurched in our diocese and once we had completed that task, we could move on to everyone else. The second group are those former Catholics who have fallen away from active participation in the community for a variety of reasons. It seems to me that many of those in this group have been hurt in some way and so healing is necessary in many cases. Perhaps they have gone through a painful divorce and feel excluded from participation as a result. Maybe they have been wounded by the clergy abuse scandal or by the unkind words of a church authority. It could be that they simply slowly drifted away from the practice of the faith and feel self conscious about walking back through the doors of a church. The third group are those of us who continue to actively participate in the life of the Church. There is always room for more growth in our lives as Christians. This is the group Deacon Sean chose to focus on in his homily.

Deacon Sean suggested that one way we might evangelize was in what we do to teach our children and grandchildren what it means to be a Christian. When they are small, we can teach things as simple as the sign of the cross. Parents can make it part of their daily ritual to bless their children. Deacon Sean mentioned that this has become so much a part of his family life that his kids will wake him up to get a blessing before bed if he forgets. We also evangelize by the example we give to not only our children, but to others. How would we act if we treated each person we encountered as if they were Christ in disguise? The Rule of Saint Benedict calls for monks to welcome all guests as Christ. It is not always an easy task, but certainly is one way of sharing the good news with others through our actions.

My own recent thoughts bring me to ask myself how we can better help those who faithfully show up at our churches week after week to really be able to deepen their relationship with the Lord. What will be helpful to the person who has a deep desire to grow in the faith, but who also works many hours to support a family, who values time spent with family at home or at soccer practice or helping with homework. What will be helpful to the person who can’t come to a Monday night Scripture study because they are doing all they can just to make it through everything already on the calendar each week? I invite the readers of this blog to share any ideas about how we can better meet this challenge.

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Fr. Christian is the pastor of St. Thomas the Apostle Church in Lenoir City, TN.

Comments

  • s-p

    Having been a “door knocker” for the church of Christ and done “evangelism” for 40 years, the BEST way to evangelize anyone, churched or unchurched is hospitality. Bible studies, reading, etc. are helpful but relationships and a couple hours of spiritual discussion and just enjoying sharing our lives with each other over a good meal is what connects people to Christ and to the community of faith. Information without relationship ends up hollow and easily supplanted by different information but relationships are hard to usurp.

  • Mark G.

    Just for the record: Scripture Study at St. Thomas the Apostle is on Tuesday nights at 6:30pm. See the bulletin for further details ;)

    I’ve started making a pot of coffee for class. Folks reall seems to open up when they have a hot cup of joe in their hands on a cold night.

    People attend class. Friends drink coffee together and talk.

  • Fr. Christian Mathis

    I hear tell of this Tuesday Scripture Study of which you speak. Rumor has it that someone is encouraging folks to compare translations of the Bible!

    Great ideas Steve and Mark! I do believe that relationships are important and coffee has always been a big help for me to help those relationships along. We have coffee AND food at our Sunday night justfaith group.

    One of my new year’s goals is to begin calling on the people in the parish who I do not yet know (there are quite a few of them!) to see if they would like to have their house blessed. I hope it will provide an opening in that few minutes of time to simply learn more about the people who call St. Thomas their spiritual home.

  • Renee

    I just discovered your website and LOVE it — thank you!

    At our parish, we have CRHP (Christ Renews His Parish) retreats and a 6mo. process afterwards that is for anyone in the Church, no matter what stage of their journey. Having just completed the process, I can say this is a very effective way to have the parishioners develop friendships … and when they develop friendships within the Church, they’re more likely to spend time at Church, and that carries out into their professional and personal lives.

    If our priest offered to come bless our home (he’s so very busy at our large parish, God bless him), I would be so honored! It’s something we would love, but would never ask because we know he has so many other obligations. Great idea!!

    May God richly bless all of you and your vocations.

  • Fr. Christian Mathis

    Thanks for the comments Renee! Great ideas!