7 Quick Takes: Sacraments

by Fr. Christian Mathis on September 10, 2010


It has been a little while since I have participated in Jennifer Fulwiler’s Friday Quick Takes. This morning I got the urging to participate with a short post on the Sacraments. Since there are seven of them, it seems like the perfect fit.  I hope you will appreciate my quick takes on the Sacraments and will share your own.

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After having celebrated hundreds of baptisms, I can still say that my favorite part of the rite is the post-baptismal anointing with holy chrism and the prayer that accompanies it.

God the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ has freed you from sin, given you a new birth by water and the Holy Spirit, and welcomed you into his holy people. He now anoints you with the chrism of salvation. As Christ was anointed Priest, Prophet, and King, so may you live always as a member of his body, sharing everlasting life.

This prayer is a beautiful reminder of our call as Christians to manifest Christ by our lived faith and announces for those baptized as children that they will later be sealed with the Holy Spirit in Confirmation. It is unfortunate that many Catholics have forgotten this connection between the two Sacraments.

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It’s not the Catholic version of a Bar Mitzvah. It’s not a teenager’s chance to choose whether or not he wishes to continue practicing his faith. It’s not the end of one’s Christian education and formation. The Sacrament of Confirmation is one of the three Sacraments of Initiation. It saddens me that there is so much confusion surrounding this Sacrament in the West, due mostly in part to our current practice being out of order. While all Sacraments must be freely chosen, it seems to me that the emphasis ought not be so much upon us choosing God, but rather upon our thanksgiving for being chosen by Him. Confirmation is meant to be a strengthening of Baptism and the gifts of the Holy Spirit that we have already received in Baptism. It is meant also to be the beginning of our life of faith, not a graduation from it.  The sooner we can restore the order of the Sacraments of Initiation, the better the Church will be in its understanding of Confirmation.

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As difficult as it is to write “quick takes” on any of the Sacraments, it is especially difficult with regards to the Eucharist. I’ll simply say that we will never be able to thank God enough for the the gift of the Incarnation. The Eucharist is our opportunity to thank him every week and to be physically united to God and one another. It boggles the mind that so many people can fail to see what we must mean to God for Him to freely offer all that He has to us at each celebration of the Eucharist.

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For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:38-39

These words from St. Paul’s Letter to the Romans are the best ones I can think of to describe the Sacrament of Reconciliation. There is nothing that the love of God cannot heal. There is nothing that any of us can do to put ourselves beyond the forgiveness of our loving Father. Are there consequences for our sinful actions? You bet. Separation from God’s love is not one of them.

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Sickness and death are two of the biggest consequences of the Fall. Have you ever been so sick, whether it be physical sickness or the sickness that comes in the struggle with sin and temptation that you want to throw yourself at the feet of Christ and say to yourself like the woman in Matthew’s gospel, “If only I could touch the hem of His garment, I would be cured?” There is desperation in her words, but also great faith. I am happy that we have this Sacrament of healing that allows us to overcome our weakness and fear by placing our trust in the Lord.

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Last week there was great interest here on the topic of celibate marriage. Today I will simply comment on the type of marriage that most of us are familiar with, the type that involves sex. One way to understand the sacramental nature of marriage that often crosses my mind is an analogy between this Sacrament and the Eucharist. I have a friend who believes firmly that no one but a married couple themselves should ever enter their bedroom. For him the bedroom is analogous to the holy of holies, or a church sanctuary and the bed is analogous to the altar. It is a good comparison. In the same way that receiving communion at mass represents God’s love for us, so does sex within a marriage. It is a holy act to be treated as such. And I hope that those reading this don’t think I mean sex shouldn’t be fun. Holy and fun need not be mutually exclusive.

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This past week we celebrated the feast of the Birth of Mary. At daily mass we sang the hymn Sing of Mary. There is a line of the hymn that beautifully sums up what should be at the heart of those called to Holy Orders.

Sing of Jesus, son of Mary, in the home at Nazareth. Toil and labor cannot weary love enduring unto death. Constant was the love he gave her, though he went forth from her side, forth to preach, and heal, and suffer, til on Calvary He died.

The life of every Christian should be an imitation of Christ, but this is especially so for a priest. Priests are called like Jesus to go forth to preach, to heal and to suffer. They are called to give up their own lives for the sake of others and in doing so to discover a life of richness.

These are my 7 Quick Takes on the 7 Sacraments. I look forward to your comments.

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  • http://practicinghuman.wordpress.com practicinghuman

    I never knew that a Roman Catholic baptism had the chrism oil. Some of the separation as I understand it is that the Western Rites held that the bishop himself must administer the chrism, whereas the Eastern Rites held that the bishop himself must bless the oils but then send the oil with the priests under his care.

  • Fr. Christian Mathis

    When we baptize adults, Confirmation immediately follows and so this is the post-baptismal anointing. When we baptize children, meaning someone 7 years old or younger, there is normally a delay so that the bishop can administer the sacrament of Confirmation, but there is still an anointing with chrism. It is kind of a foretaste of the second Sacrament.

    The holy oils are also blessed in the same way in the West by the bishop once a year during Holy Week and priests bring the oils back to each parish for use. This would also include the oils for anointing of the sick and the Oil of Catechumens.

  • http://musingsofacatholiclady.blogspot.com Michelle

    I loved your takes! Absolutely agree on the Eucharist (duh) in that it’s difficult to put into words what it should mean for us. I am overwhelmed often at the thought!

    One of my favorite smells on my children after Baptism is that of the chrism. I just love that smell!

    And that’s a beautiful sentiment about the married couple’s bedroom. Unfortunately, once the children come along, someone else is coming into that bedroom. :)

  • Dave Wells

    Father, thank you for saying this about Confirmation. I think we are depriving young adolescents of the grace of the sacrament, at a time when they desperately need it – well before they are nearly finished with High School!

    I know the Eastern Churches have maintained the link between Baptism and Chrismation. Has the Latin Rite always kept them separate, or was that a later development in the history of the West? Personally, I’d like to see the West adopt the Eastern practice (and perhaps keep First Penance and First Communion for the age of reason), and then have a Rite of Misisoning (or something like that) for the graduating High School kids.

  • Fr. Christian Mathis

    The order was changed when Pius X moved the age of first communion to the age of reason. The Church did not also change the age for Confirmation and they got out of sync. There is much current debate on restoring the order, either by adopting the practice of receiving all three at once as the Eastern Churches do or to simply combine the reception of Confirmation and First Eucharist at the age of reason.

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    It’s wonderful to see a priest reaching out to people through the internet – thank you for having a blog and for participating in “7 Quick Takes.” You never know who might stumble across it and find answers to questions they lacked the courage to ask.

  • http://musingsofacatholiclady.blogspot.com Michelle

    Thanks for that explanation about the change in the order of sacraments, FAther. I would be interested in keeping up on the debate over restoring the order…I really don’t hear much about it in my neck of the woods.

  • Kathy

    I really enjoy seeing this discussion about Confirmation. I hope and pray that the order will be restored in the not too distant future. Anyone who has ever been involved with RCIA becomes very aware of the proper order of reception of the Sacraments of Initiation, and the important link between them. It becomes cystal clear that they are out of sync outside of RCIA. I think it’s safe to say that the majority of average Catholics in the pews have lost the connection between Baptism and Confirmation. It is so far removed from Baptism that the thinking about Confirmation has become distorted. As a result, many practicing Catholics have never received the Sacrament of Confirmation. They missed out along the way for one reason or another. Proabably because they were teens who were given a choice to recieve the Sacrament or not. Perhaps they didn’t have a clear understanding of the Sacrament, or perhaps they simply weren’t there anymore to receive it. Teens can have a tendency to wonder away from their faith for a while given the choice. Then, when they become interested again, and come back, they don’t know what to do to recieve the Sacrament of Confirmation. Perhaps they are embarrassed about it? Perhaps some figure they’ve just missed the boat, or maybe because of a lack of understanding of the Sacrament they decide they don’t really need it? After all, they’ve been recieving the Eurcharist since they were seven or eight. What ever the reason, it’s very sad. I’d love to see the Church make more of an effort to reach out to those people so that they can receive the Sacrament of Confirmation. There are so many of them. I agree with Dave Well’s comments. We are dipriving people of the grace of this important Sacrament. However, I want them to recieve it way before adolescence. Right after Baptism where it belongs.

  • Fr. Christian Mathis

    Thanks for the comment Kathy.

    I always wonder if parents, and many times catechists and priests, realize the negative side of what is being communicated when we define Confirmation as a Sacrament where teens now “make the choice” to be adults in the Church. It implies that a valid choice is to choose not to be full members of the Church and that leaving the faith is something the Church invites them to consider. Of course there should never be coercion when it comes to Sacraments, but I really think we need to carefully choose how we present something as important as Confirmation. We could start by taking the time to understand the meaning behind it.

  • carmen rivera

    I love each and everyone of your takes on the sacraments. It brought back memories when any of our children got sick and their doctor would come in the house, he would not go to our bedroom. He said that was a sacred place. Beautiful, isn’t it?

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