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Modern Confession: Select all, delete?


As a newly ordained priest it used to bother me when people came into the confessional and began reading a list of sins from a piece of paper they had carefully worked on beforehand. It bothered me so much in fact that I remember one day taking a list out of someone’s hand before they could begin to read from what I then referred to as the “laundry list”. “Just tell me the sins that are most on your mind now,” I said, “you don’t need a list to remember them.” These were the thoughts, words and actions of an immature priest, who didn’t yet fully understand that different people need different tools to help them bring their sins to mind and to allow them into God’s light for forgiveness. It was only when I began to recognize more clearly the damage that sin created in my own life that I could see the need to delve more deeply to discover the sins hidden below the surface. While it was true that I can easily recall my most obvious sins without needing too much of an examination of conscience, there are other dark parts of my life that require more prayer and self examination to see. Sometimes having a list that has been created from a searching inventory of self can be of great use in naming our sins. It is also my belief that for many people it helps lessen the nervousness that often accompanies confessing one’s sins.

This week I have gotten many messages like this one from my friend @JimWogan about the Roman Catholic Church’s new embrace of technology in spreading the Gospel and apparently devising a new way to receive the sacrament of Reconciliation.

@FatherChristian Can I get a ruling on this? RT @JudeCosta: Catholic Church, check-out Confession App for iPhone http://tinyurl.com/4o65dg4

This was the first of many tweets, facebook messages, and emails that I have received as people have responded both positively and negatively to the news that a group of priests have developed an iphone app to assist people in preparing for Confession. The latest email I received pointed me to this article by Maureen Dowd entitled, Forgive Me, Father, for I Have Linked.

One of the things that should be clarified is that this phone application is not a way to receive the sacrament, but rather a tool to help one prepare oneself by making a somewhat tailor made examination of conscience and from what I can discover as step by step guide to how the sacrament works.

Call me new-fashioned if you want, but I really don’t see too much of a problem with creating an electronic version of what many Catholics already use, especially if in doing so the Church is able to invite many Catholics who have been away from Confession in the process. At every communal penance service we hand out programs that contain questions meant to bring to mind the sins of those gathered and to assist them in remembering how the sacrament is ordered. It seems to me that in the same way our churches have moved from carbon paper to photocopiers and from typewriters to computers, we can easily move from handwritten lists to iphones when it comes to bringing our sins into the confessional. Perhaps it is the perfect marriage of modern technology with an ancient practice of the Church.

As always, I welcome your thoughts.

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Fr. Christian is the pastor of St. Thomas the Apostle Church in Lenoir City, TN.

Comments

  • http://yimcatholic.blogspot.com Frank Weathers

    If this helps even one person examine their conscience and come to confession, then it is worth it. $1.00 well spent.

  • JBAS

    Excellent and thoughtful post, as usual. In our effort to celebrate God’s mercy, we priests sometimes lose patience with the preliminaries, even when these “preliminaries” are deeply tied to the fallen condition of the penitent. Your post is a reminder that the manner in which we treat the confession itself helps pave the way for fuller participation in the words of absolution that follow. Thank you.

  • http://nowealthbutlife.com Rae

    I agree completely and I even hope that they will come up with another version designed for nightly examination of conscience.

    This doesn’t fit with my personality, but if we had an iphone I’d buy this for Josh ASAP. Because if you’re a techie checklist sort of person, then this makes perfect sense. Find God in every area of your life, and, to paraphrase what a wise priest said recently: If we believe that the Incarnation redeemed the whole human person, why wouldn’t we include the app-loving part?

  • http://www.kathleenbasi.com Kathleen@so much to say

    I have a tendency to ignore stories that appear to be useless, which this one did. So it wasn’t until two days ago that I realized this app was nothing but an examination of conscience. I just don’t understand why the media is making such a big deal of this. So it’s an examination of conscience. Big deal. And good for whoever made it!

  • Jen

    I am a list-maker by personality type. Lists keep me organized and make sure I don’t miss anything. I nearly always make a list before I go to confession, and most of the time, I read from the list, adding a comment or explanation if necessary. Only occasionally, when I am focused on one or two particularly troubling sins, and need healing/help with those specifically, will I completely abandon my list.

    I used to worry what Father thought when I pulled out my list. Once, a priest even laughed at me for having one, but I used it anyway. I usually spend a few days preparing for confession; sins and areas of darkness tend to be revealed little by little over that time. Once I write it down, I can release it. I know it will be confessed if it is on the list, so I am free then to pray about other areas of sin in my life, and not to continue to obsess over any particular one.

    My husband has been using an iPhone app confession tool to prepare for the Sacrament for about 2 years. He also likes the iPhone Missal app to follow along in mass. Both have helped him grow in his faith. Neither work for me. What a blessing that we have these tools for those who benefit from them, and that we still hold onto paper and pen for those of us who don’t.

    Thanks for this thoughtful post.

  • http://mary-lifeinasmalltown.blogspotcom Mary

    I’m so glad you commented on this. I heard about it a couple of days ago on an afternoon talk radio show. The producer is Catholic, and she explained that it is a tool to help prepare for confession. I wonder if it may even make someone realize that they need to go to confession. I don’t have an iphone and am not planning on getting one, but, like Rae, I think if I did have one, I would get the app. I need something to nudge me toward confession! :)

  • http://catechesisinthethirdmillennium.wordpress.com William

    I think this app. is great for allowing one to do an examination of conscience before going into the confessional. It is also a great tool for daily or frequent examination.

  • http://ikeepmymemorieshere.blogspot.com/ Ruth Ann

    From what I’ve heard about this, it sounds like a great tool for anyone with an iPhone, which I do not have. I wouldn’t mind having a paper version, though. If nothing else, the introduction of this app has opened up a lot of talk about confession, and that can’t be bad.

  • Fr. Christian Mathis

    Wow! Lots of comments on this one.

    It is funny to me that I am both happy with the media for bringing this to the attention of so many people, but slightly annoyed that they are making it sound like one can go to confession now via your iphone. Then again, I suppose one would quickly find this not to be the case once the app was purchased.

    I love anything that can be used as a tool to grow in faith and this one sounds very much like that to me!