Blessed is the Kingdom

Seeking The Kingdom In All Things

Finding Time for Silence

Spend some time in silence every day.

Maxim #9

We live in a culture filled with noise. It saturates every nook and cranny of our modern world. It is difficult to go anywhere today without the sounds of engines from planes, trains and automobiles. Then there are the sounds of our televisions and ipods. Advertisements make their assault on our senses twenty-four hours a day. It seems that we as a culture have issues with silence.

I remember clearly the first time I stepped out of my car at Conception Abbey in Northwest Missouri. There was something strange about it that I couldn’t quite name. Then I realized what it was that had caught my attention, pure silence. I had rarely been in a place where there was this kind of tangible silence, but there in the vast fields and farmland I could almost reach out and touch it.

The difficulty that I have most often found in trying to be silent, even for a few minutes a day, is the amount of time and effort it really takes. Upon first deciding to enter into silence, I begin to realize just how much exterior noise there really is that surrounds me. Then, just as I am able to quiet the exterior, I realize there is still much more interior noise that has yet to be silent. It takes no time at all for all the interior voices that have been drowned out to raise the volume inside my head, vying for my attention. It is only with real discipline and time every day in exterior silence, that I can eventually come to an interior one as well. And every once in awhile, when I have come to a deep silence, there is a place created that is a meeting place for God.

But even when I don’t reach that deep place of silence (most days I don’t) there is something to be gained in intentionally spending quiet time alone. All those thoughts and internal voices can tell me so much about my life and where it needs improvement. Most of all, silence is a form of rest that I find very needed as I make my way daily through a sea of noise.

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Fr. Christian is the pastor of St. Thomas the Apostle Church in Lenoir City, TN.

Comments

  • http://myjourneywithpots.blogspot.com Ericka McCarty

    I have found that driving offers a great chance for silence, especially if I don’t have the noise-maker on and I take back roads.

    Your description of your first visit to Conception Abbey is my experience of my first visit of the Abbey of Gethsemani.

  • Fr. Christian Mathis

    Funny that you mention Gethsemani. I am working on a short essay on monasticism and as I have been writing today the two places that keep coming to mind are Conception and Gethsemani. While Conception has more of a “desert” feel to it, Gethsemani certainly has the same sort of tangible peace.

  • http://myjourneywithpots.blogspot.com Ericka McCarty

    I haven’t been to Conception, yet… however, I do wish to visit.

    Are you going to be posting the essay? I hope to read it. :)

  • http://www.kathleenbasi.com Kathleen@so much to say

    I grew up on a farm, and I never appreciated that expansive sense of silence sans traffic noise until I moved to the city. I want so badly to take a yearly (or monthly!) retreat to Conception, for just that reason. I keep hearing how remote and how quiet it is. It’s not in the near future, I’m afraid; I have to be mom to small children for some time to come. But those days are coming. Thank you for posting on this.

  • http://ikeepmymemorieshere.blogspot.com/ Ruth Ann

    When I was in a Catholic boarding high school there were nights when I couldn’t sleep. I would go down to the chapel sometimes for a visit with the Lord. One night, when I was just 15, I experienced a profound silence. I could hear nothing externally. I actually tried to hear some sounds. No traffic, no noises from the heating system, everyone else was sleeping. I even tapped the communion railing to see if I had gone deaf. Then I entered into it and simply listened to the silence.

    Since then I have appreciated silence and solitude. It is definitely a place to meet God. The effect on me is healing.

    For 20 years I’ve lived in a rural area. It’s quiet all the time, and silent at night. I feel blessed.

  • Fr. Christian Mathis

    Ericka,

    Conception is an awesome place. I am not posting the essay here as it is more of an academic exercise, but I may have some posts that are inspired by it.

    Kathleen,

    Hope you make it out there soon, even if for just a day with the kids!

    Ruth Ann,

    It is certainly a blessing to live where things are naturally quiet.

  • http://quantumtheology.blogspot.com Michelle

    It’s two years last week since I made a 30-day retreat in silence, and like your memories of the profound silence when you got out of the car, my memories of coming back are vivid. The world can be a pretty noisy place. The grocery store was like nails on a blackboard…

    In some ways, I think, stealing larger chunks of time for silence is easier than finding ways to tuck them into the day. Once a month I aim for 24 hours in silence (I am blessed to have a gorgeous 250 acre retreat house near enough to drive that often), and it’s always a great grace. Then there are days when I’ve not managed to find even a minute for silence and solitude between Morning Prayer and dinner.

  • Fr. Christian Mathis

    I agree Michelle. FInding time to go away for a week or longer makes it easier to enter into a deeper silence. Gethsemani Abbey in Kentucky and the Jesuit retreat center in Grand Couteau, Louisiana have bee a great places for me to do that in the past.

    Where did you do your 30 day retreat?