Call No Man Father
One of my parishioners recently recounted an exchange that he had with one of our Protestant brothers who shared with him one of the big problems he had with the Catholic Church. “You all call your priests father,” he said, “in the Bible, Jesus says we should call no man father.” Having grown up in the South, I have heard this argument made many times. Matthew 23:9 says call no man father, and you Catholics call your priests father and that is wrong. The implication is that if we are wrong on this one point, we must be wrong on many others.
Perhaps one of the biggest real differences in believe between Roman Catholics and many Protestants is that the way we read the Bible is fundamentally different. The Catholic method of reading the Bible is very different than those who claim the Bible is our only source of revelation. The Catholic method of reading the Bible does not hold to a strictly literal understanding of the words that are written on its pages, but rather pays close attention to the context surrounding what is found there. The Catholic method of reading the Bible relies heavily upon the wider Christian Tradition to help inform our reading.
With these things in mind, let’s take a look at what is written in the 23rd Chapter of Matthew’s Gospel. This chapter is more or less a rant by Jesus against the Scribes and Pharisees who at the time were talking the talk, but not walking the walk. It begins,
Then Jesus spoke to the crowds and to his disciples, saying, “The scribes and the Pharisees have taken their seat on the chair of Moses. Therefore, do and observe all the things whatsoever they tell you, but do not follow their example. For they preach but they do not practice. They tie up heavy burdens and lay them on people’s shoulders, but they will not lift a finger to move them. All their works are performed to be seen. they widen their phylacteries and lengthen their tassels. They love places of honor at banquets, seats of honor in synagogues, greetings in marketplaces, and the salutation ‘Rabbi.’ As for you, do not be called ‘Rabbi.’ You have but one teacher, and you are all brothers. Call no one on earth your father; you have but one Father in heaven. Do not be called ‘Master’; you have but one master, the Messiah. The greatest among you must be your servant. Whoever exalts himself will be humbled; but whoever humbles himself will be exalted. (Matthew 23:1-12)
Jesus goes on throughout the rest of this chapter to add many more woes to the scribes and Pharisees, pointing out many of the ways they continue to say the right things and to perform the correct deeds, all the while with hearts that are far from sincere and far from God.
When one looks at verse 9 in this context it seems very clear that what Jesus is denouncing is not the use of the title Father, but rather the hypocrisy of the scribes and Pharisees who it seems spent quite a bit of their time seeking places of honor above everything else. I would dare say that Jesus might indeed make a similar statement today about many religious leaders who continue to preach well while ignoring their own words of wisdom.
But when we get too literal with this one verse of a very big book, I believe we miss the point of what Jesus was saying entirely. In fact, how are we to understand who God is without an understanding of the word Father? And who are we to learn first about what it means to be a father, but from the best of our earthly fathers, both biological and spiritual? Who are we to learn what it means to be a teacher from, but from the best of the teachers who cross our path? Those fathers who truly love their children and show them the way to our Father in heaven deserve our praise and gratitude. Those who are hypocrites deserve to be treated as such. A beautiful prayer that reminds earthly fathers of their responsibility to love and teach their sons and daughters is found in the Rite of Baptism:
God is the giver of all life, human and divine. May he bless the father of this child. He and his wife will be the first teachers of their child in the ways of faith. May they be also the best of teachers, bearing witness to the faith by what they say and do, in Christ Jesus our Lord.
What have been the most common challenges to your Catholic faith from those who do not share it? How do you continue to grow in your faith so as to respond with confidence to those who have questions about Catholicism?






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