Seeking the Kingdom

by Fr. Christian Mathis on August 27, 2011

But by reason of their special vocation it belongs to the laity to seek the kingdom of God by engaging in temporal affairs and directing them according to God’s will. They live in the world, that is, they are engaged in each and every work and business of the earth and in the ordinary circumstances of social and family life which, as it were, constitute their very existence. There they are called by God that, being led by the spirit to the Gospel, they may contribute to the sanctification of the world, as from within like leaven, by fulfilling their own particular duties. Thus, especially by the witness of their life, resplendent in faith, hope and charity they must manifest Christ to others. (Lumen Gentium 31)

Vatican II’s Dogmatic Constitution on the Church makes it clear that it is not simply the hierarchy of the the Church who are called to lives of holiness. Each baptized person in the Church is called to an active life of living the Gospel. In many ways, I often feel that the laity have been given an even greater challenge than those of us called to ordained ministry in the Church. While it is true that priests and religious are often the most recognizable Catholics because of their uniquely public role, it is the laity who most often interact with those who have yet to hear the Gospel and to accept it. Perhaps most importantly, it is the laity who have the primary responsibility of passing on the faith to our children.

Many times people comment to me about the large responsibility and workload that comes from being ordained. This is no doubt true, but there are also advantages not often afforded to the laity. One that I never fail to be thankful for is the fact that I was allowed six years of time in the seminary to learn about our Catholic faith from some of the best teachers in our country and to take part in intensive Christian formation. The time spent in the seminary is a precious gift most lay people do not receive. My vocation also allows me to give myself undivided to ministry in the Church, without having the added responsibilities that most in the secular world do. At the end of my time away from active ministry, my work required me to spend several hours a day in my car. The time in the car was invaluable to me, as much of it was spent listening to podcasts about the faith. On countless occasions I reached my destination longing to continue with whatever program I was listening to, but knowing my responsibilities at that time were elsewhere. The laity are called to find ways to continue learning about their faith, without neglecting their duties to family and work.

The laity are also called to give witness to the Gospel in all their daily activities. While this may be something done without too much added creativity at home, I would imagine that giving witness at work might be a bit more challenging. There were so many times at my last secular job that I wanted to share the good news of Christ with someone, I began to lose count. But the rules of my job would not allow me to explicitly talk about matters of faith unless the person I was serving at the time brought it up first. So what is a person to do in this kind of situation? Should we just abandon this call to be the face of Jesus to everyone we meet? My own decision was to simply do my best to give witness to Christ through my attitude and actions and to keep watch for opportunities to speak about our faith when it was appropriate.

Living out the vocation of a Catholic layperson is not an easy one, but I cannot think of one that is more important in today’s world. So my question today to those of you who are attempting to live out your vocation as a member of the laity is this: How is it going? What can priests and religious do to help you to continue your formation in the faith and to help you in bringing that same faith to others?

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  • Fmdale

    Hi, Father Mathis, thank you for bringing up the topic of faith formation in the laity. 
          Here is what I wish I had (more) access to: a personal spiritual director; classes led by priests for the laity; more Latin Masses available at closer locations; and more homilies that give us practical advice how to deal with the current cultural attitudes we deal with constantly.  How about some homilies on the importance of marriage, for example?
         Some scripture/Bible study classes taught by lay people are not always in accord with church history or the catechism.  It has just been my experience that priests are more educated in the teachings of the church than most lay people. 
         I do have access to frequent daily Masses, time in front of the Blessed Sacrament, wonderful, devout priests who give great homilies and are readily available for confession, fantastic fellow parishioners, and plenty of online news sources to keep up on church matters.  All of this helps.
         But it is hard to feel comfortable asking very busy priests to take time out to advise me on non-emergency spiritual issues.  And most of all, I would just like some concrete advice on what to say to people (including family members) who espouse views totally contrary to the church’s.  When is it appropriate and more charitable to speak up and speak the truth, as St. Paul did in his letters, and when is it more appropriate to stay silent and hope to persaude by our own actions instead?  I know the quote, “proclaim the Gospel always, and when necessary, use words. ”  But how to apply that in messy day to day scenarios can get tricky…

  • http://www.blessedisthekingdom.com Fr. Christian Mathis

    Thanks for your thoughtful response. Let me just say that even though there are less of us than both priests and laity would like, I believe most priests would like the opportunities to do more of the things you mention. There aren’t that many of us were called to the priesthood because of a strong desire to spend lots of time at the finance board, or to figure out the best way to maintain buildings. That being said, I am sure that most married people didn’t get married primarily to work on their budgets or do home repairs either, but they are necessary to create space for the things that are truly life giving. 

    It would be difficult to have the time if everyone in my parish wanted me to give them spiritual direction on a regular basis, or even if they all showed up for the sacrament of confession once a month. That being said, I truly believe if even half of our parishes were serious enough to seek these things, we would have many more priests and religious and devoted laity within a short period of time. 

    Currently, I am teaching two classes in the parish, one is an ongoing Bible class and the other is on the new Roman Missal. While I agree with you that priests generally have more education, there are more and more lay people with good backgrounds as well. My concern even before being ordained has often been that even with good materials (and these are not always used) they are only as good as the person who is facilitating or teaching a class. 

    As far as Latin masses, I must say that while I am not of the opinion that we should not be having them, or that they are moving us too far into the past as some say, but I do believe that with the numbers of current priests the larger concern is being able to serve those who are using the novus ordo, and this is simply due to the numbers. I am currently learning the Divine Liturgy in order to possibly help our Ukrainian Catholic priest in his small community, but my first duty is to my own parish.

    Homilies are something I have been hearing about since my days in the seminary. Please learn to preach! is a mantra. I hope to continue to improve my preaching for the rest of my priesthood. My current goal is to say the phrase “you know” less than I currently do, which is quite a bit, you know? 

    Your last issue is a difficult one to know what to do other than to continually pray for God’s guidance. I think you hit the nail on the head in saying basically that we are to speak the truth in love. Sometimes I think the best thing to do is to refrain from getting into arguments and to wait for the time when God has prepared someone to hear us. Discerning when that is can be difficult, even for the clergy.

    It does sound as if you have been blessed with many good things to help you in your faith. Thanks again for you comment!

  • mgalbaugh

    Hi Father, nice reflection.  The laity are in a tough spot these days. Our society still has a patina of Christianity, but has largely rejected the person of Jesus Christ.  Sadly, many Catholics helped to build that society, often relegating their Faith to the private sphere instead of building up the earthly city to be model of the heavenly one.

    Everyone loves a list, so for what it’s worth, here’s my thoughts on what the laity can/must do as disciples of Christ in the world today…

    1) Attend Mass every Sunday & holy day of obligation religiously.  Go, regardless of how wonderful or painful the situation on the ground at your local parish may be.  Pay attention to the readings, Psalms, prayers, & the actions on the altar. Tremble & rejoice in the presence of God.  Take liturgy seriously, even if it seems sometimes that no one else does.  “Without me you can do nothing.” Absolutely critical. 

    2) Pray everyday.  Meditate on the Gospels, say the Rosary, pray the Liturgy of the Hours, make a holy hour, whatever.  You have to stay connected to the God who is your spiritual strength & your light in the darkness or you will get lost.

    3) Read the Bible.  This is the story of the people of God, the story of salvation.  It’s your story.  Become familiar with the people & events in both old & new testaments.  It will strengthen you spiritually & make you smarter to boot.  The Bible is the basis for virtually the entire corpus of Western literature, so you will learn to pick up on biblical (or sometimes anti-biblical) references, symbolism, & themes.

    4) Know your Faith – Learn your Catechism.  Catholics are pathetic in knowledge of their own Faith.  If one doesn’t know it, how will they live it?  The Catholic Faith is “something” handed on from the Apostles in its entirety & taught by the Church under guidance of the Holy Spirit.  You very much need to know what that “something” is.  It is not up for a vote, it’s not a fuzzy collection of platitudes, it’s not a social program, & it will never be in fashion with the world or the worldly.  It is a God’s definitive revelation to his people of who He is, who we are, where we came from, where we are going, & what we should do personally & corporately in the mean time.  It is glorious.

    5) Repent.  I believe it was the London Times that held an essay contest
    about 100 years ago on the topic, “What’s wrong with the world.”  One
    respondent’s 2-word entry is noteworthy: “I am.”  (see no.8)  It is a
    hard but valuable lesson that we ourselves are a source of evil in this
    world.  It’s tempting to cast disparaging glances on others from our
    pedestals; but the truth is, each of us is part of the problem. 
    However, even these days, it’s not uncommon to find a little closet or
    small room in a Catholic church that’s open for business for at least a
    few minutes a week.  It’s inconvenient & it’s embarrassing &
    it’s painful to own up to your sins, but it has to be done.  Now is the
    time of mercy.  Get in the box.  You’ll be astounded by the outpouring
    of grace.

    6) Enlist! – Realize you are at war.  For 40 years now, there’s been a near-maniacal emphasis on caring & sharing & holding hands.  The Romans didn’t make helmets & shields out of felt; & I don’t recommend holding hands with demons.  They are real, they are way smarter than you, & they are hell-bent to destroy you & your loved ones in order to keep you away from God for eternity.  Your attitude, preparation, & choices should reflect this reality.  Go forth knowing that God has already won this war; just make sure you’re enlisted in his service, equipped with every weapon at your disposal.

    7) Try, but expect to fail.  At least by earthly standards.  Having to
    endure difficult circumstance & our own bad choices is part of being
    human, but don’t get discouraged (see no. 6).  Accept failure with
    grace & use it an opportunity to learn & grow stronger.  We may
    find one day that our earthly failures are glorious triumphs. 

    8) Turn off the Stupid Box & read.  Read every classic author you can get your hands on from Homer to Chesterton (certainly a classic).  These authors were gifted with insight into the human condition & shared it in great stories.  Why would you pass that up?  Even great writers with lousy philosophies & bad writers with good ones have something to teach.  Never stop reading. 

    9) Be patient.  We work for Jesus Christ, not for our egos. We will have to be patient with others who may not share our same viewpoint, & with ourselves that we may never see our projects bear fruit.  But that’s OK.  Patience is a stance of humility (a requirement for any spiritual growth) & trust in God.

    10) Become friends with the friends of God. The saints embody pretty much every other point – especially the Blessed Mother.  Many were clergy, but many were not.  They all helped to spread the kingdom of God in their own time, place, & way according to their unique circumstances.  They are all totally different, but are also all a unique reflection of Jesus.  Though a good starts, don’t stop at “saint of the day” blurbs; go read their own writings.  You will find that you have many companions on this journey with whom you can identify & on whom you can lean.

    11) Make room for the Spirit.  Inspirations & opportunities to do God’s work abound, & it is the Spirit working through us that enables us to respond, keeping us receptive to the moment.  I believe it is God the Spirit that also helps us to keep the most important things in view – the infinitely precious gift of life, the overwhelming power of love, the joy of walking ever-closer to God.

    12) Jesus Christ must be the center of everything we do, or it is all for nothing.

  • Fmdale

    Thank you, Father, for your reply.  I am not in your parish, so I did not know about your classes.  When is your Bible Study class offered?
       Re: Latin Masses, I have only attended one, and it took some initiative on my part to do so, back in Virginia.  I grew up with and love the Novus Ordo Mass, and I am looking forward to the new translations this Advent.  But I wish we had an easier time experiencing the Latin Mass as well, since it is such a rich part of Catholic history and our Catholic identity.

  • http://www.blessedisthekingdom.com Fr. Christian Mathis

    The current class meets on most Thursday mornings at 9:30. I agree that the Latin is helpful in understanding a fuller sense of our identity, but I think most of all it is to get people interested in growing deeper in their practice and understanding of the faith.

  • http://www.blessedisthekingdom.com Fr. Christian Mathis

    Thanks Mark. This is a list I can get behind! Would you be open to me republishing it as a guest post? Just a thought.

  • mgalbaugh

    Have at it. 

  • mgalbaugh

    Hi Fmdale, I’m curious where you’re located.  Whether you’re in E. Tenn or not, the diocescan newspaper/website should have listings of the Traditional Latin Masses in your area.

    I would suggest that the old Mass is not just a historical curiosity, but a living part of the Church.  Our little Latin Mass community alone generates more vocations to the priesthood & religious life than the entire rest of the diocese.  It really is something beautiful & powerful.  “I must decrease & he must increase.”

    I think what people want most is not necessarily old or new Masses, but beautiful & solemn liturgies that are worthy of the encounter with God.  The new translation for the new Mass will be a good move in that direction.

    God bless.

  • Ironiccatholic

    So my question today to those of you who are attempting to live out your
    vocation as a member of the laity is this: How is it going?

    Oh my gosh, I could write a book.  Actually, I am.

  • Anonymous

    This is is a great list! Thank you.

  • http://www.blessedisthekingdom.com Fr. Christian Mathis

    Great idea!

  • Fmdale

    Dear mgalbaugh,  I am in E. Tenn, and do see where Latin Masses are currently offered, but they are not at times and places I can get to easily. 

     I know Pope Benedict has encouraged priests at each church to offer Latin Masses where their congregants ask for it, so I am hopeful that there will soon be one at a location near by.  I think some in our own parish have expressed an interest in it.

  • Sara

    It seems like a little thing, but please leave the church open. This is such a big help to me. Our parish is open now until 7 or 730 in the evening, when they used to lock up at 630. For me this is the difference between being able to stop and pray in the church on the way home from work, or not. 

  • http://www.blessedisthekingdom.com Fr. Christian Mathis

    Already done. 24/7.

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